Thanks, Grumpy.
There is a lot in that post!
I'll only address your first sentence.
Nev asked a simple question - "JUST tell ME the Country you would RATHER be living in. Nev"
I am not greatly travelled so my opinion is coloured by new reports (and we all agree on the value of them).
However, even allowing for all the shortcomings of our country, my answer is:
I can't think of a better place. Sure there is stuff that should change for the betterment of everyone. BUT...
Our rule of law works mostly ok. I am safe from persecution. I eat well, have a comfortable place to live, have reasonable health care.