Firstly like everything else why should just a few pay money to get the benefit when so many others get the benefits for free. The solution to that is every member has to pay to access the site but the outcome of that will be a closed shop that will kill a site off very quickly.
If we compare the site versus the facebook points previously made:
FB: Posts on FB are generally no longer than one sentence.
SA: Not only does this site promote longer posts but there is also better formatting of posts like new paragraphs, bold, italic, colour, centering etc, in fact I can add many more if you want
FB: Facebook is open to anyone on the planet.
SA: This site is open to anyone in Australia and New Zealand and if any user would like specific friends in another country to be able to access the site, just let me know and I can manually add them
FB: You can find the profile of a friend or relative, and select them as a "Facebook Friend". You can search for people you know, and send them a "Friend Request"
SA: You can search for another user and follow them as a Friend basically the same as FB but there are also badges, reputation, etc plus I can add some more user and friend features unlike FB, tell me what you want
FB: make you post available to "Public", "Friends", "Specific Friend", "All Friends Except" or "Custom"
SA: Unfortunately FB has it over SA in this area. Not sure what I can do with this
BUT
FB: With items flagged as public, you get inundated with trolls
SA: Moderation is enforced here on SA so Trolls against a user's post is extremely rare
FB: People are suggested based on mutual friends, or common things in their profile, such as attended the same high school
SA: Again FB has it over SA in this area. The only thing is you can see a users friends by looking at their profile BUT the thing is, SA has far more privacy and security to prevent unwanted targeting. I could relax this a bit with extra profile fields if we got many more users and friend/family groups were created...let me know how you would like this to go
FB: how easy is it to post pictures? Actually, it's quite simple.When in the comment entry panel, an icon (as shown below) opens the Add photos box, where you select the file to upload.
SA: It is much easier to post pictures on SA plus you can also attach different types of files and you do have the Gallery where there are categories
FB: usually short video clips are uploaded in posts and show as a freeze frame. I cannot address Youtube type videos, I've never tried to upload one.
SA: You can link most types of videos including YouTube ones. let me know if there are any you can't. Actually uploading a full video is hard because SA does not have the server space like FB
FB: Absolutely littered with adverts. AI monitors your web searches then bombards you with adverts that are barely related.
SA: Not here on SA at all
FB: There are complaint groups for things like Australia Post and Foxtel.
SA: We have Groups here that are far superior than FB for users to create, you can even have a Family Group that is locked to just Family users etc
FB: A downside for some people may be that on FB people usually use their real name and perhaps some folks value anonymity.
SA: A user can be completely anonymous to every other user but NOT to myself as I value user security to the highest level I can, unlike FB
There are many more Pros and Cons of both platforms like cost, easy access, access to many other things etc. I comes down to that I can create just about anything you want here but to do so would need a massive more user registrations to make it viable. For example a "complaint group" as mentioned above is useless if only say 2 users access it or contribute to it.
Thanks and I am so appreciative of the comments being made here as a collective.