Two wrongs don't make a right.
Option A
Both parents are doing something illegal; I know that's simplistic because, as a society and as a country, we should have fixed this but we've failed, and the ice epidemic is tearing the country apart, particularly out in country areas.
We have an obligation to solve the drug problem, and your example is one of the reasons.
Option B
I only gave the clothing example because the rest was too painful to revisit, but your comments were typical of the patronising "solutions" I used to be given by relatives and friends of the family.
There are always going to be children who for some reason or other are best cared for by foster parents; they should not be condemned to a single sex development?
The ones I had in mind in particular were those where two females decide one of them will have a child naturally, so they can be "parents".
I don't have anything against gays; I know it's not their fault that they were wired wrongly; I have two long standing gay couples as valued friends, but I wouldn't want them to inflict a single sex upbringing on children, any more than I should be allowed to psychologically abuse a child.