No, Nev, it was me un-following this thread, and I couldn't see a way to do that without also posting something.
Now I'll have to do it again.
Because while resentment is a perfectly legitimate emotion, sustained resentment is a waste of time and energy, and worse. It is, as the late Carrie Fisher said, like drinking poison, then waiting for the other party to die. And it seems to me there's a great deal of it here.
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